Networking: Stop Collecting Contacts. Start Building Catalysts.
Networking isn’t about collecting contacts. It’s about building a system that compounds into clients, investors, and opportunities. A proven 4-step framework (and free tracker) to turn every meeting
What you’ll get in this article:
⚡ A 4-step Networking Multiplier Framework to turn chats into opportunities
📊 A free Networking Tracker (your personal OS for follow-ups)
🚀 Early access to my QR-based contact system
✉️ Ready-to-send follow-up messages for email & LinkedIn
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The connection that reshaped my approach (and a 9-hour train lesson)
On my way to TechBBQ, a four-and-a-half-hour train ride turned into a nine-hour marathon because of delays. The event is to support and strengthen the Nordic startup ecosystem.
Annoying at first. But it gave me something rare at events: time to reflect and prepare.
I already had a few speed-match, 15-minute intros booked, those classic “elevator pitch” conversations. My plan was simple: engage, connect, and create a reason to follow up.
So I pulled up the matchmaking app and started working through the list. I filtered for the people I really wanted to meet, then cross-checked their LinkedIn and websites. If the event profile was thin, I did a little extra homework. That preparation shaped my pitch and, more importantly, my call to action.
Here’s the truth most people miss: it’s not enough to connect on LinkedIn. If you don’t capture context and an official email, follow-up becomes hit-or-miss.
I thought back to the 50+ events I’ve attended or helped organize across Europe:
Business cards sometimes work, but they’re easy to forget or lose.
LinkedIn is useful, but official emails are often missing.
And without a system, valuable connections fade fast.
Somewhere in the journey between Sweden and Denmark, I decided to fix this for myself. I built a simple QR system: scan it, save my details, and at the same time, I collect theirs into my Notion CRM.
At TechBBQ, across 25+ meetings in two days, this worked 99% of the time. Not only was it efficient, but it also made the exchange memorable. People noticed the difference.
And here’s what I learned:
The magic isn’t in the moment. It’s in the system you build around each interaction.
The networking blind spot (I’ve made these mistakes too)
What I see founders do again and again:
No intentional prep → show up wide, not deep.
Poor capture → great leads get lost in a phone full of unlabelled contacts.
Only LinkedIn → wide but shallow; hard to reach people reliably.
Weak follow-up → “nice to meet you” messages sent too late, with no value.
No cadence → relationships fade because there’s no system to keep them alive.
Networking isn’t broken. Our systems are.
Networking is strategy, not small talk
Every breakthrough story has a line that starts with:
“Then someone introduced me to…” or “I met X at Y and that led to…”
These aren’t coincidences. They’re the result of treating connections like compound interest small, consistent deposits that multiply over time.
Stop thinking of networking as an event. Treat it as infrastructure.
The Networking Multiplier Framework
Meet → Capture → Follow-Up → Multiply
1) Meet (with intention)
Ask yourself: “Who could really move my venture forward right now?” Be specific. “Other founders” is vague. “B2B SaaS founders who’ve raised Series A in fintech” is actionable.
Here’s my prep ritual:
Filter the event app for high-fit people.
Research their LinkedIn + website to prepare one sharp line: “We work with [ICP] to [outcome] without [pain].”
Define a CTA: a clear next step and make sure to capture their official email, not just a LinkedIn click.
Some guides say “aim for just 3 meaningful conversations.” Personally, I see it differently. I’d rather create as many connections as possible, then follow up with those who matter most.
Why?
Because networking is a numbers game and a systems game. The magic comes when you cast wide, then deepen selectively. Every connection might not be meaningful in the moment, but with context, follow-up, and engagement, even a quick intro can become a catalyst later.
2) Capture (context is king)
Don’t just store a name, store why it matters.
My setup at TechBBQ:
A QR code with my contact card.
A short intake for them (Name, Org, Email, Org Type, Comment).
Automatic push into my Notion CRM.
Right after the chat: add context, keywords, next steps, opportunity score.
This removes friction, creates reciprocal value, and keeps the door open for real follow-up.
3) Follow-up (value first, within 48 hours)
Most founders wait too long and send generic messages.
Better: follow up within 48 hours with one practical value add:
A relevant article,
A warm intro to someone useful, or
A concrete offer to help with the challenge they described.
Goal: give before you ask.
4) Multiply (1 + 1 = 5)
Become a connector. Introduce two people who should meet. Ask for targeted referrals:
“Do you know 1–2 [role] at [type of company] looking to [outcome]?”
One meaningful interaction can become five opportunities when you treat it like a flywheel.
Your networking operating system (free tracker)
I built a Networking Tracker for this, not another spreadsheet, but a simple relationship OS for founders:
Context capture templates so you remember why this contact matters.
Automated follow-up reminders so no thread dies.
Value-add prompts so every message is useful.
Connection mapping so you see who can open the next door.
Relationship Depth + Potential Multiplier scoring so you focus where it counts.
Get the Networking Tracker (Free)
(Duplicate in Notion; takes 2 minutes to start.)
What’s coming next (QR-powered, work in progress)
The QR system I used at TechBBQ was the first layer. I’m building a complete QR-based networking tool that will:
Enable bidirectional contact exchange with context capture,
Sync to your CRM automatically,
Suggest smart follow-ups based on your notes,
Visualize relationship paths and opportunity clusters.
The prototype already reduced my burden and added an engaging moment to meetings. The full system is in development.
Early access:
Anyone who get the Tracker and shares this article will get priority access when the QR tool launches.
Because founders who think systemically about relationships deserve the best tools first.
Proof that systems beat luck
From LinkedIn alone:
A connection from three years ago is now unlocking a business expansion.
One event interaction → a partnership service model that opened doors to 40+ European tech scaleups.
A single introduction → a spin-out venture that’s now raised pre-seed and has real traction.
None of this was luck. It was follow-through.
One small ask
If this resonated, please share it with one person who needs a system for relationships, the founder who’s brilliant but inconsistent, the professional in transition, the builder who hates “networking”.
Download the Networking Tracker, share the article, and you’ll be first in line for the QR-powered tool.
Your next breakthrough is sitting in someone’s network right now.
They’ll introduce you when they know you, trust you, and remember how you add value.
What’s your networking multiplier story? Hit reply, I read every message.
P.S. Quick recap: why networking fails (and how we fix it)
No intention → define your people before you go.
No context → capture why they matter, not just who they are.
No cadence → follow up within 48 hours with value.
No compounding → make introductions; ask for targeted referrals.
System > chance.
Three One-Click Follow-Up Templates
These are lightweight, adaptable, and designed for email or LinkedIn DM. You can copy/paste and tweak the brackets. Each one is value-first so you’re not “asking” but “giving.”
1. Value Share Template
Subject: Great meeting you at [Event Name]
Hi [Name],
It was a pleasure connecting at [Event/Context]. I remember you mentioned [specific challenge they shared].I came across this resource that might be helpful: [Link]. Thought of you immediately.
Let’s keep in touch — I’d be happy to exchange ideas further as things progress.
Best,
[Your Name]
2. Warm Intro Template
Subject: Thought you should meet [Contact’s Name]
Hi [Name],
Really enjoyed our conversation at [Event]. You mentioned you’re exploring [topic/need].
I think you’d benefit from meeting [Contact’s Name] — they’re doing [relevant work] and could be a great sounding board.Would you like me to introduce you both?
Best regards,
[Your Name]
3. Next Step Template
Subject: Next step from [Event Name]
Hi [Name],
Great connecting with you at [Event]. You shared [context] and I believe there’s a chance we can [specific collaboration].Would you be open to a 20-minute call next week to explore this? Here’s my link to book: [Insert Calendar Link].
Looking forward,
[Your Name]
Great advice.